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What Toxic Shame Feels Like: 9 People Share Their Experiences
“The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I change.” ~Carl RogersMy heart races as I raise my hand, eager to contribute yet terrified of the attention...
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Insights and Advice from a Former People-Pleaser
“I can’t give you a sure-fire formula for success, but I can give you a formula for failure: try to please everybody all the time.” ~Herbert Bayard Swope
In December 2023, my people-pleasing ways...
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How to Get to the Amazing Life on the Other Side of Your Fears
“As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others!” ~Marianne WilliamsonHave you ever felt trapped by fear, unable to break free from the shackles of insecurity and doubt? It’s...
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“To live long is almost everyone’s wish, but to live well is the ambition of a few.” —John HughesThink for a moment about the people who’ve left a positive, lasting impact on you....
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3 Simple Words to Help You Feel Present, Grounded, and Nourished
“The little things? They’re not little.” ~Jon Kabat-Zinn
Remember Halloween, 2018? No? We wouldn’t, either, except that it happens to be the day our mindfulness journey—and our lives—changed forever.
First, some background. We (Deborah and...
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How I Broke Free from My Toxic Need to Achieve
“If it’s out of your hands, it deserves freedom from your mind too.” ~ Ivan Nuru
“Honey, we’re gonna call you an ambulance.”
The woman on the other end of the phone at the hospital...
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The Challenge of Living an Honest Life in a World of Want
Benjamin Franklin wrote in his autobiography, “It is more difficult for a man in want to act always honestly.”All those who desire to live an honest life should consider the weight of...
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Hope for the Grieving: You Will Make It Through
“No darkness lasts forever. And even there, there are stars.” ~Ursula K. Le Guin (the Farthest Shore)Everyone with a close relationship with their mother has felt it at some time or other or...