Let’s face the fact, we are not experts on women, even women can’t be experts on women. Although it does not take a lot of expertise to make a woman feel loved with all of your heart, make her really feel special. Love is a difficult thing, and it is surely the most beautiful feeling in the world.
For some people, love comes very easy and some have to earn love the hard way. Sometimes, you will love a woman easily, and in some situations, love will find its way the second time, even when you have buried all hope. How do you grow in a relationship? You make mistakes and you become a better version of yourself! The more you grow, the better you will be able to understand yourself and the other person, that is what relationships are all about.
Even if you think you are worse at a relationship, you are actually in a better position to understand them. There is a very popular saying and I believe it to be true: Failure is the breeding ground for success.
Make mistakes and learn from them. We want you to make the woman in your life feel loved, and we know you want that to happen as smoothly as possible. After learning from past mistakes and having a better understanding of myself, here are some of the ways you can make your girl feel loved and special beyond measure.
Always Make Time For Her
Any woman will feel loved if you give her time and treat her as a priority, which is why you should always make time for her. Spending time with her will definitely make her feel that she still has a special place in your heart. What saddens me is that I have seen men put effort into the dating process and all of their excitement vanishes when they are actually in a relationship. Consistency matters a lot in a relationship. You cannot be hot one day and cold the other, your intentions need to be shown.
We create time for almost everything in our life, our jobs, our friends, and our families. The same has to be done for the woman in our life, she needs to know that she is a vital part of your life, something that you cannot live without.
Whenever you are planning something for her, make sure that you are not distracted or disturbed. Exclusivity matters a lot, and it will surely make your woman feel loved more than anything. You can have fun night outs, game nights, plan a date, or just do something with her which will make her happy.
Think of it like this, behave with her like you are still trying to win her over and she will always feel loved.
Appreciate The Little Things
If a woman loves you, she is going to make you feel special, and she will definitely go out of her way for that. From the smallest things to the big surprises, she will always make you the center of attention and love. The best way to react here is to appreciate her, even if she is trying to make a little effort, it will do a lot of good if you appreciate her.
Appreciating her will make her actions seem justified and she will have that warm and fuzzy feeling of being loved. Since there are many instances where women are ignored and their surprises are not appreciated, it is the least that we can do.
Acknowledge Her Actions
You have to notice whenever she is trying to make an effort for you, acknowledge it. This will show her that you still care and that whatever she is trying to do means a lot to you. What is the best way to acknowledge her actions? Gift her something, it could be something small and meaningful, or something grand, whatever works for you.
Accept Her For The Person She Is
They say that a woman is like a curved bone, if you try to straighten it up, you will only end up breaking it. The best way to treat a curved bone is to let it be, I think this is just beautiful. Let me show you why!
You need to appreciate your girl exactly the way she is because if you try to change her, it will only make her feel uneasy. You fell in love with that person, why would you try to change that now?
There is a common mistake that many people make, and it can be really hurtful. We as human beings are unique, each of us is built differently, and there is no point in comparing ourselves with others. Since we don’t want ourselves to be compared with others then why would we compare the woman we love with others, that is just demeaning.
Society has created this “Ideal” persona that none of us can practically adhere to, failure to do so marks you as the black sheep. People will tell you how to talk, how to clothe yourself, how to eat, etc. This only benefits them, not you, since you don’t want to do it, there is no reason that you should force someone else to do it.
Just love your woman unconditionally and that should be more than enough.
Don’t Try To Change Her
Trying to change the person you love will only put misery in both of your lives, this is something that you have to avoid at all costs. You can never demand a woman to be “Perfect” for you or to be like a certain person that you wanted, this is completely unfair.
The truth is that you can never change a woman, the only way you can make her better is by loving her, respecting her, and showing her compassion.
Change is often associated with negativity, it really doesn’t need to be that way. Instead of changing others, we can try and be the best versions of ourselves. Being the best versions of ourselves will actually help us in the long term.
Loving and understanding go hand in hand, you cannot expect to love someone if you don’t understand them. You need to accept her how she is, and you will do that through compassion and a better understanding of her feelings/ what she’s going through.
How can you best describe compassion in a relationship? Compassion means understanding how tough her day went, what kind of challenges she had to face, and how her upbringing was. Compassion is being there for her always, being empathetic to her problems, and showing her sympathy. She is your partner in this life, she is always going to be there for you, the best thing that you can do is be there for her.
You don’t need to be right all the time, she doesn’t need to be. If she wants to do something, then you should let her do it however she wants to do it. You need to put yourself in her shoes and think from her perspective. Whenever there is a problem between you two, try to think from her perspective. This will help you in rectifying the whole situation.
Listen To Her Problems
Women love talking, this is a way of expressing themselves. If your woman talks to you a lot and shares her feelings, then you have to consider yourself very lucky. This is a way of showing their love for you, they share their insecurities, and their secrets with you. The best thing to do here is to lend them your ear.
Whenever they start talking, the best thing to do is to listen to them without any kind of judgment. They want to talk and they want you to listen, doing that will only make them feel more loved and understood. You don’t always need to have a two-way conversation with them, just be empathetic and listen to them with all of your heart.
Be Open and Honest
There is nothing more attractive in a man than honesty, this is something that all women believe in. Whenever you are having a conversation with your woman or just having plain discussions, always be honest. Don’t try to hide anything or lie, this will only put you in an awkward position and will damage the trust between you two.
Women love having deep, intimate, and open conversations. Whenever you feel like talking or sharing something important with your woman, just be yourself!
Hiding the truth will only hurt your loved one and they will also disintegrate their trust, you don’t want that!
Bring Those Walls Down
The world is a cruel place, and most of the people you meet will try to take you down. You need to have your walls up but not when it comes to your family, and your spouse/girlfriend. Whenever you share your feeling with them, make sure to include the negative along with the positive. They are not here to judge you or attack you, they are only here to help you out and make everything better.
They love when you are there for them, so they love being there for you. They cannot help you if you don’t tell them what is really happening to you. If you share your vulnerabilities, your loved one will try to comfort you, and they will make sure that nothing bad happens to you.
Men rarely open up, it is a very difficult process and women know it. If you open up to them, it will only make them feel more loved and trusted.
Don’t Be Sorry, Be Better!
There are always going to be problems in a relationship, there are going to be arguments, and even some fighting is going to happen. The best thing to do here is to be better than before and be a better version of ourselves. Everyone makes mistakes, but we should learn from those mistakes and make sure that they don’t happen again.
Focus on eliminating bad habits that damage your relationship, and be emotionally stronger and wiser. Personal growth is great, but you also need to become a better partner in a relationship. Go through counseling if you must, attend workshops, and even battle your inner demons if you have to. Once you are the better person that you wanted to be, you will notice extraordinary changes in your relationship.
Heal your emotional wounds, become a better listener and also try to solve her problems. This will only make her feel more special than anything else!
Small Acts Of Love and Care Go A Long Way
You don’t always need to go to fancy restaurants, or vacations to declare your love to your woman. It can be done in small and meaningful ways too. Everyday acts of love and care go a long way, they make your woman feel loved and cared for. Help her out with the dishes, watch TV with her, and bring her favorite food, these are amazing ways to woo your woman.
Does she need your help with anything? How is her day going? Ask these questions and see the magic happen!
Showing A Woman Your Love- Romantic Quotes and Sayings
Love is the best feeling in the world and everyone knows that. Famous writers and poets have expressed love in some of their best works. Lend these amazing quotes from some of the most memorable movies, and shows to express your love to the woman of your dreams!
My heart beats faster as you take my hand, my love grows stronger as you touch my soul.
A.C. Van Cherub
Whatever happens tomorrow, or for the rest of my life, I’m happy now…because I love you.
If I had a flower for every time I thought of you… I could walk through my garden forever.
You and I, it’s as though we have been taught to kiss in heaven and sent down to Earth together, to see if we know what we were taught.
Boris Pasternak, Doctor Zhivago
You are whatever a moon has always meant and whatever a sun will always sing.
E. E. Cummings
The simple lack of her is more to me than others’ presence.
In love there are two things: bodies and words.
Joyce Carol Oates
Our love cannot be measured, it just is.
John Paul Stevens
I love you because the entire universe conspired to help me find you.
Paul Coelho, “The Alchemist”
True love stories never have endings.
In a world full of temporary things, you are a perpetual feeling.
Your words are my food, your breath is my wine. You are everything to me.
Till my last day, I’ll be loving you.
I need you like a heart needs a beat.
When you look at me, when you think of me, I am in paradise.
William Makepeace Thackeray
I am in you and you in me, mutual in divine love.
Did my heart love till now? Forswear it, sight! / For I ne’er saw true beauty till this night.
William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.
A. A. Milne, Winnie the Pooh
The day my life changed forever … the day I first saw you.
The Longest Ride
I love you, not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
I know by experience that the poets are right: love is eternal.
E.M. Forster, A Room with a View
How do I love thee? Let me count the ways. I love thee to the depth and breadth and height My soul can reach.
Elizabeth Barrett Browning
When I saw you I fell in love, and you smiled because you knew.
If you remember me, then I don’t care if everyone else forgets.
Haruki Murakami, Kafka on the Shore
Every atom of your flesh is as dear to me as my own: in pain and sickness it would still be dear.
Charlotte Brontë, Jane Eyre
I wish you to know that you have been the last dream of my soul.
Charles Dickens, A Tale of Two Cities
Yours is the light by which my spirit’s born: yours is the darkness of my soul’s return–you are my sun, my moon , and all my stars.
E. E. Cummings
I want you today, tomorrow, next week and for the rest of my life.
I.A. Dice, The Sound of Salvation
You are the finest, loveliest, tenderest, and most beautiful person I have ever known — and even that is an understatement.
F. Scott Fitzgerald
I love you and that’s the beginning and end of everything.
F. Scott Fitzgerald
Not even in my weakest moment have I ever considered letting you go.
Judith McNaught, Whitney, My Love
If I know what love is, it is because of you.
The only thing we never get enough of is love; and the only thing we never give enough of is love.
Take love, multiply it by infinity and take it to the depths of forever, and you still have only a glimpse of how I feel for you.
Meet Joe Black
I would rather spend one lifetime with you, than face all the ages of this world alone.
J.R.R. Tolkien, The Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring
One day you will ask me which is more important—my life or yours? I will say mine and you will walk away not knowing that you are my life.
It’s always better when we’re together.
I swear I couldn’t love you more than I do right now, and yet I know I will tomorrow.
You make me want to be a better man.
I love you. You… you complete me.
A soulmate is someone who understands you like no other, loves you like no other, will be there for you forever, no matter what.
P.S. I Love You
My soul and your soul are forever tangled.
I know that somehow, every step I took since the moment I could walk was a step towards finding you.
Nicholas Sparks, Message in a Bottle
I love you as certain dark things are to be loved, in secret, between the shadow and the soul.
Each day I love you more, today more than yesterday and less than tomorrow.
A magnificence that comes out of your eyes, in your voice, in the way you stand there, in the way you walk. You’re lit from within.
The Philadelphia Story
You are the one girl that made me risk everything for a future worth having.
Simone Elkeles, Perfect Chemistry
In case you ever foolishly forget; I’m never not thinking of you.
I am who I am because of you. You are every reason, every hope, and every dream I’ve ever had.
I think I’d miss you even if we never met.
The Wedding Date
Do I love you? My god, if your love were a grain of sand, mine would be a universe of beaches.
The Princess Bride
You are my best friend, my human diary and my other half. You mean the world to me and I love you.
You are the last thought in my mind before I drift off to sleep and the first thought when I wake up each morning.
You’re a beautiful woman, you deserve a beautiful life. Nothing less.
Water for Elephants
Because I could watch you for a single minute and find a thousand things that I love about you.
Thinking of you keeps me awake. Dreaming of you keeps me asleep. Being with you keeps me alive.
I realized I was thinking of you, and I began to wonder how long you’d been on my mind. Then it occurred to me: Since I met you, you’ve never left.
It was love at first sight, at ever and ever sight.
Vladimir Nabokov, Lolita
To be your friend was all I ever wanted; to be your lover was all I ever dreamed.
You don’t love someone for their looks, or their clothes or for their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear.
I love being married. It’s so great to find one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.
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Loving someone is one of the best feelings in the world, if you have a girlfriend or a wife then you should consider yourself very fortunate. Women are difficult to understand, we know that, but they are not difficult to love. With the right words and the right actions, you can easily make your woman feel loved and special.
Compassion and Understanding are very necessary for a relationship, you have to give a woman both love and respect. Just be yourself, be better in a relationship and see the magic happen!